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I got dumped...

Post by Jordan on 5th July 2009, 8:19 am

Anyway, first me and her got to walk down the beach (Shell Point FL) and we stood around/made out allot and then we went back to my grandfathers house. So by the time we got back nobody was home as THEY had left themselves to see the fireworks. We sat down inside and surfed the web for a minute, checked on the time lapes videos of the fireworks we made. Then we went back to the beach when it was dark filming the fireworks and kissing. We layed down a blanked and fell asleep with eachother. Eventually we woke up and had to go home, but it was nice being with her holding her and hugging her.

And when I got home, she said she didn't want to do it anymore. And now I feel like my soul is gone. I have never felt this way before.

Im in total shock, and for some reason have the strange urge to go build something huge in my backyard.

A day this great turned into the worst day of my life I can remember. This sucks Crying

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Re: I got dumped...

Post by Doctor Inferno on 5th July 2009, 9:58 am

Maybe you can ask her what's wrong or why the sudden change of mind? When these kind of thing happen remember to move on.

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Re: I got dumped...

Post by TeReX on 5th July 2009, 10:48 am

These kind of things happen, just like doc said you have to move on.

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Re: I got dumped...

Post by Jordan on 5th July 2009, 9:37 pm

@Doctor Inferno wrote:Maybe you can ask her what's wrong or why the sudden change of mind? When these kind of thing happen remember to move on.

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Yeah. Its been really depressing. I feel REALLY empty inside. Here is a pic of our last day together as BF/GF.



That was on the 4th of july. I would have NEVER thought she would do this.

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Re: I got dumped...

Post by Sir $wat on 6th July 2009, 2:24 am

what did u do to her when u guyz were lying down?



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Re: I got dumped...

Post by Keollyn on 6th July 2009, 10:41 pm

That's quite a day to do something like that. I'm in a situation like that right now. I just don't understand the sudden change of heart from females.

Their species is so fickle.

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Re: I got dumped...

Post by megatails5 on 7th July 2009, 6:46 pm

if i were you i wouldn't worry. You probably still have feelings for her but its ok, thats only natural, but i am telling you, you need to let it go, dont let her go on and off with you. Dont go out with her again, cus then shell think she can push you around. Also, i don't mean to sound harsh, but there is plenty of fish in the sea, and many (or i guess not) who are nicer and nicer looking than her.
Just forget about it, build that thing in your garden, and refuse to take her back, unless you want to grow old with her bossing you around!



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Re: I got dumped...

Post by Keollyn on 7th July 2009, 8:41 pm

Moving on isn't as easy for some as it is for others. I truly think that's bad advice.

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Re: I got dumped...

Post by ocean.bluex on 7th July 2009, 11:58 pm

Then... What do you do in this case? Moving on is best imo.

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Re: I got dumped...

Post by Keollyn on 8th July 2009, 8:50 pm

Then the person is struck with guilt, anger and frustration... which will flow into the NEXT relationship.

You cannot suggest that all people follow this advice. Some people need closure and understanding. The guy doesn't know why she left him for crying out loud. It's not like there was a mutual agreement to part ways.

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Re: I got dumped...

Post by Belahzur on 8th July 2009, 9:04 pm

I find it hard to talk about myself and don't like doing so, but I will do anyway, so here goes.

When my ex left me, I was kinda crazy, suffered from depression and that empty feeling. I withdrew inside a shell, found it hard to trust anyone anymore. Then I started to hide behind my illtellegence (notice I don't do small talk a lot on this forum?) and still do.
I stopped taking things seriously, if you don't care, then you can't get hurt anymore. You'll find yourself wondering why the hell it happened, full of anger and agression, and you may finder you become somewhat of a loner.


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Re: I got dumped...

Post by Keollyn on 8th July 2009, 9:53 pm

That's true. It's not easy for everyone. That's why I'm so up at arms with the advice of "move on"

I'm sure it wasn't easy for the thread creator, else he wouldn't have made this thread.

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Re: I got dumped...

Post by Belahzur on 8th July 2009, 10:25 pm

I know, I agree, it's hard to move on, but it does get easier.
Creating this thread was probably the best idea for OP to get over it. Smile


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Re: I got dumped...

Post by Jazeon on 11th July 2009, 4:03 am

I felt bad on what happen and you spend too much time on that day for what I've read. But atleast you could learn from a mistake.

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Re: I got dumped...

Post by ViKtory on 1st August 2009, 6:54 am

if you really want her back..,There's only 1 way...try to forget bout her!think that she's no more in your life....try acting as if there is someone else for you..(but not really) she'll surely feel guilty and come back...(but if you have personnally done something,this may not work)only the time can say..until u get a better advice,you may follow this one Big Grin



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Re: I got dumped...

Post by Jazeon on 1st August 2009, 2:08 pm

vedu_king wrote:if you really want her back..,There's only 1 way...try to forget bout her!think that she's no more in your life....try acting as if there is someone else for you..(but not really) she'll surely feel guilty and come back...(but if you have personnally done something,this may not work)only the time can say..until u get a better advice,you may follow this one Big Grin
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That is always the common guide for people who lost their girlfriend. I know she is your number one but always remember the ocean is a bit huge so that means their are a lot of fishes.
But I do understand how it feels like having her though but what happened will never return. Shh a secret

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Re: I got dumped...

Post by ViKtory on 2nd August 2009, 6:44 am

Thanks..Jaz-O-Bud!

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but yea,if she is cleaver,she well know that we are using a trick..and do the opposite things...then this would go to a -1 Sad tearing

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